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August 31st 1980, was a very warm, brilliantly sunny
day, and our hearts were filled with a matching warmth as we were
about to witness the marriage ceremony of a very special
couple
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As the four hundred and fifty four guests were
ushered to their seats in the Crystal Room of the exclusive Beverly
Hills Hotel in California, the delicate strains of organ music
played, and the atmosphere felt as sacred as any wedding chapel or
church.
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The magnificent decor was specially designed to
simulate a 1950's wedding in an olde English garden setting. Every
window and pillar in the room was covered with silver foil-backed
trellises, interwoven with white orchids, gardenias, violets and
lemon leaves.
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Huge baskets of orchids were suspended from the
ceiling, and another trellis heavily laden with purple stocks(to
simulate wisteria)and lemon leaves, was positioned above the custom
built altar, framing the bridal party.
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Prior to the service, Richard appeared in gray
morning coat to take his position at the piano, where he accompanied
the 40 piece Tom Bahlor Chorale, as well as Earl Dumler on oboe, and
Gayle Levant on harp. The renowned English orchestra leader Peter
Knight flew from his home to make his contribution to the music for
Karen's wedding, and conducted the choir. As the maestro and choir
floated serenely into a medley of Carpenters hits and other love
ballads as only Richard can articulate with his superb arrangements,
it was difficult to keep a dry eye!
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Dr. Robert Schuller, Pastor of Garden Grove
Community Church, and frequent preacher on televised services,
officiated at the wedding ceremony. He escorted the very handsome groom and
his best man (brother Richard) to the altar.
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The bridegroom's parents headed the bridal
procession, Mrs. Burris looking very elegant in a pale green chiffon
gown with a matching lace re-embroidered jacket, and a matching
picture hat trimmed with pale green silk gardenias.
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Richard left the piano for a few moments
to escort his mother down the aisle. Mrs. Carpenter looked equally
elegant and happy, wearing a gray satin stripe over lavender chiffon
gown, trimmed with lavender lace embroidery at the neckline and
cuffs. Her picture hat consisted of lavender chiffon with lavender
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pause, then Karen's crystal clear voice conveyed her personal
message to her bridegroom with an awesome recording entitled Because
We Are In Love. Richard composed and arranged this
masterpiece in commemoration of Karen's wedding, in coordination
with his longtime writing partner John Bettis who wrote the lyrics.
What a moving moment to precede the nuptials. |
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The bridal path (aisle) was lined with
custom built white gardenia topiary trees, and large woven baskets
of pink chrysanthemums, making a perfect setting for the bridal
procession as the tiny flower girls scattered the petals
dutifully. Their
charming Victorian style gowns of white Swiss embroidered cotton
were bloused at the hips with white silk taffe sashes. Their hose
and patent leather shoes were also, white, and their purple straw
hats were ringed with lace and violets. |
| The smaller flower girl's twin brother
(Karen's godchildren) was the ring bearer. Looking adorable in a
white satin knickerbockers outfit with lace ruffles and white silk
cummerbund, white hose and patent leather shoes, carrying the unique
ring pillow. |
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This pillow was specially created by
designer Bill Belew, who used remnants of material from all the
gowns he had made for Karen over the years for her many televised
Carpenters performances. |

Sandy
Holland and Rick Burris |
The procession of ten bridesmaids, each
on the arm of a morning coated usher, followed by the
matron-of-honor was a picturesque scene. Their waltz length gowns of
lavender chiffon over crepe-de-chine slips featured double tiered
cape sleeves and sweetheart necklines. |

Frenda
Leffler |
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Karen 'Itchy' Ramone and Casey
Kasem
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Their waistlines were accentuated with
emerald green sashes adorned with a posy of lavender silk violets,
and each carried a sheaf of deep purple dendrobin orchids, tied with
emerald green satin bows. |
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Now the moment we had all been waiting
for. As the opening chords of The Bridal March warned us of the
imminent appearance of the bride all heads turned as Karen emerged
on the arm of her proud father, looking absolutely exquisite and
radiantly happy. |
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| Her gown was modeled after an 18th.
century riding ensemble. Made of white mausseline-de-soie, the long
sleeved jacketed gown with a long train featured a floral design of
iridescent seashells and sequins. Fifteen yards of material were
used for this work of art! |
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The bride's silk elusion veil cascaded
from a white chiffon detachable brimmed picture hat, fashioned with
a Juliet cap crown embroidered with sequin-studded flowers.
Lilies-of-the-valley was Karen's choice for the bouquet she carried,
interwoven with wired loops and streamers of tiny white pikaki
petals which gave a lace effect.
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As the Bride met her Groom at the altar, both smiled
broadly and the service began.
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After Richard sang a very moving version of The
Wedding Prayer, and the couple exchanged marriage vows (loud and
clear!) and they exchanged rings. The pastor proclaimed Tom and
Karen "Husband and Wife" at the completion of the
service.
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All eyes were glued on the happy couple as they
returned down the aisle.
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